Understanding constructive conflict is one of the most important things you will ever learn as a couple. The first part of this is understanding your natural effective conflict style and also understanding your partners natural style. Here’s the dirty little secret, your natural styles might be different. You must also find out what their natural …
Behavioural needs in your relationship
We all have physical needs, but most people don't realize we have behavioural needs as well.
How does your partner need to talk to you?
How does your partner need to talk to you? (If they want you to hear them!) There is a lot of talk about the Golden rule. Frankly treating others the way you want to be treated can get you into lots of trouble. You must learn the platinum rule where are you treat others the way …
The way we normally act out with friends is often not the way we act at home. Before you marry someone you want to know how they act at home when no one's watching. We can help you do that by measuring their "out with people" behaviour and their "at home” behaviour. Then we will …
Stop Guessing 